Why a dozen roses is not representative of a relationship.
I reached for the cliche dozen roses... but it didn't feel right. Nova is not your typical female, and this is not a typical relationship. I wandered the store with an empty buggy, stopping by the floral department numerous times before finally settling on a small rose plant. I wanted something to represent our relationship completely, and this is my way of thinking:
-A bouquet will look beautiful and full right from the beginning, but will quickly fade and die away. This is not characteristic of our love.
-This rose plant is small and vulnerable. However, it will be strong, healthy, and beautiful in the long run. This is how a relationship builds.
-Much like a relationship, this plant will require work and attention to stay healthy and beautiful. If it is neglected or taken for granted, it will wither away and all the effort put into it previously will be for nothing. Just like our relationship.
I love my Nova with all my heart. May our vines of love be ever strong, basking in the sunlight of happy days, warmed by the affection and respect shared between us.