Don't say you love me
It's happened by two different people in the past two days. They say it, but they don't mean it. It's not to get laid; it's not to get me to do anything at all, so what in the shit is the deal here?
Listen here. Just because you feel the need to unburden yourselves from the feelings you harbor for some female in your life, it doesn't mean you should. You had better be DAMN sure you're going to back up your words with some kind of action, or at the very least, be positive that it's what she wants to hear. Don't just run around, clearing your conscience of things that you feel, leaving a trail of uncertainty and unanswered questions in your wake. It's like the emotional equivalent of playing doorbell ditch. You ring and then you run. It's selfish, childish and really, it's just generally kind of fucked up. At least one of them had the good sense to repeat it a few times to "drive the point home". The other merely dropped the "L" bomb and skeedattled outta there. Who the hell raised you? Did your parents tease you when you were babies? "Here, honey pie, have this lollypop. You want the pretty lolly? SIKE!! YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!" Are you so full of emotional ineptitude that you are prevented from follwing through with the thought process of what kind of havoc you wreak when you L-bomb people? No, not just people. ME. If you know me enough to love me, you will undoubtedly be aware of my (sometimes irrational, and very female) sensitivity. You do not, repeat
DO NOT
just tell someone how much you love them and then not say a word to follow.
YOU'RE FIRED!
Listen here. Just because you feel the need to unburden yourselves from the feelings you harbor for some female in your life, it doesn't mean you should. You had better be DAMN sure you're going to back up your words with some kind of action, or at the very least, be positive that it's what she wants to hear. Don't just run around, clearing your conscience of things that you feel, leaving a trail of uncertainty and unanswered questions in your wake. It's like the emotional equivalent of playing doorbell ditch. You ring and then you run. It's selfish, childish and really, it's just generally kind of fucked up. At least one of them had the good sense to repeat it a few times to "drive the point home". The other merely dropped the "L" bomb and skeedattled outta there. Who the hell raised you? Did your parents tease you when you were babies? "Here, honey pie, have this lollypop. You want the pretty lolly? SIKE!! YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!" Are you so full of emotional ineptitude that you are prevented from follwing through with the thought process of what kind of havoc you wreak when you L-bomb people? No, not just people. ME. If you know me enough to love me, you will undoubtedly be aware of my (sometimes irrational, and very female) sensitivity. You do not, repeat
DO NOT
just tell someone how much you love them and then not say a word to follow.
YOU'RE FIRED!