Hmmmmm...

[grim_hellfire]

So, I've been examining my thought processes rather clearly this afternoon and, I'm trying hard not to lie to myself here, I'm really quite an asshole. I endear myself to people by hiding who I am, not by being who I am and improving who I am. You know why I am attracted to some girls, mainly the ones I have actually dated? It's because I see that

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[gethsemane]

Ahh, so that's why you never went after me

[grim_hellfire]

Actually, that's probably not too far from the truth. That and I made the excuse that I was probably a couple years too young for you, I stand corrected on that front. =D

[gethsemane]

Oooo. Burn, Tito. That smarts.

;)

[siennanneis]

I agree with gethsemane (and I want to know who that is!). Sure, nobody's 100% healthy, and we all do a better job at coping with our shortcomings than facing/healing them. But, this does not make you an asshole. Ask yourself what YOU have gained from being drawn to weak/damaged people. Choosing strong/healthy people is more of a risk because those people won't need you the same way the w/ds will. Also, I think gethsemane has a point that maybe you don't think you deserve an s/h. You're not a jerk, but maybe you are stuck in a bad pattern. Start thinking about what's good for YOU, not about what somebody else might want/need from you or what they might think about your choices. Spend your time with people that make you happy and leave you feeling good about yourself. The rest of those jokers can fuck off.