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[greentigger10]

I'm so frustrated with people right now. Girls in particular. Which is kind of funny because the only people who read my entries are Emily, Jennifer, and Alexis, who are all girls. So I guess I'm kind of attacking you in an indirect way. Sorry. I'm just so tired of girls and their stupid drama that they strive on. Somehow, I seem to get dragged

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[my_onlyxhope]

lol yes i do read this.
I'm always here if you need somebody. you know that.

[squishyperks]

ok :)

[greentigger10]

what days are you free this week?

[squishyperks]

I don't get back to the valley until 5 Mon-Thurs. Fridays I don't have class

[cel]

I've decided to answer a few of your questions. These aren't questions where there's a definate answer but these are the answers I've come up with throughout my life and maybe it'll help you find your own answers.

What was I put on this Earth to do?Obviously only you can decide this, but ultimately you were put here to learn. You were put here to understand the world, and your purpose. Being religious, it's hard for me to separate God and purpose. Earth is like a test - a test you can't really fail. But you earn points, so to speak. "Men are that they might have joy." (Alma 2:25) So the trick is - how do you achieve true, undeniable JOY? A lot of people think it's whatever makes your body feel good. They have a point, but it's a small point. Joy comes from service, from love, from care and from purpose. Joy comes from treating others with consideration, it comes from ambition and having a goal in life that will better the world or yourself. Thoreau said that you need a small handful of goals for your life (3-5) and if the

[cel]

Why can't people help their feelings?The truth?: They can, but they don't want to. They want to blame their actions on their feelings when really they don't have the self-discipline to realize that they acted out of turn or did something stupid or were stubborn or selfish. One excuse I can't understand is "I couldn't help myself" or "I don't know why I did it." These are excuses - not reasons. Sometimes, however, not being able to help your feelings is just a desire to be recognized, understood and cared about. No one wants to be replaced or duplicated but they want to be loved. People do crazy things when they want attention. Sometimes they'll blame it on you - just ask yourself "Is it really MY fault?" and "How can I help them?" Keep in mind that this particular advice is much easier said than done. Because it involves others feelings and it involves your own, sometimes it takes tact and care to deal with each situation

[greentigger10]

You always make me feel better. Thank you. Your answers already put me on a closer track to finding my answers. when do you get back?

[cel]

I get back in April. I don't know what day yet.