Social: how do I keep or create community when social media is a problem for me/I like its reminders of folks I know

Time use/work life balance: Assuming 9 hours for sleeping, 2.5 hours for cooking & eating, 8 hours of working, 30 minutes of laundry and toothbrushing, that leaves 4 hours for administrative details, friendship, hobbies, house ( Read more... )

Well. I found a role model. In the last day or two I've been reading a webcomic, Girls With Slingshots, and in it there's a loving, plant-loving person who ends up in effectively a poly relationship. She likes sex. She is essentially a main character, with human issues ( Read more... )