All good points, all heavily considered in the past. Every relationship is different, this one would probably have run its course already if it weren't for the kids. Then again, if it weren't for the kids many of the problems we face might not be here. But then again again, there might be others to take their place. Bottom line, no relationship is perfect. Neither of us wants to openly introduce another into our mix. I understand if she wants to flirt with people, I do the same. But that line was well crossed. These are just thoughts running through my head but the days of my black and white views of lies, in general, are well behind me. The ball has been in her court for a while. She doesn't communicate well so I start most conversations, doing my best to read her mind and allow her to agree or fill in the blanks as I go. But the best I get from her is often "I don't know what my problem is." The first time you reach that conclusion you empathize and want to help. Years of hearing it tend to dull the response. And we're well past my
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Oh, man! I'm sorry to hear of the troubles and tribulations you been running across, friend. Thanks for letting my spout my pouts about such personal issues that I have nothing to do with, that is gracious of you. Thank you
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It's alright. Always good to hear your views. And I don't take offense at responding to my scenario with your life experiences and perspective. How the hell else are you going to respond?
I'm mostly just venting. And she was pretty eager for it last night, which tends to set my mind at ease as well as my hormones. She knows I can't go four days. I know I'm a bit of an oddity when it comes to the sex drive. I know many guys that have all but lost interest at my age, much to their wives collective chagrin. In fact, the vast majority of guys I know would rather take care of themselves than with their long term partner. That I can't begin to wrap my head around.
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I'm mostly just venting. And she was pretty eager for it last night, which tends to set my mind at ease as well as my hormones. She knows I can't go four days. I know I'm a bit of an oddity when it comes to the sex drive. I know many guys that have all but lost interest at my age, much to their wives collective chagrin. In fact, the vast majority of guys I know would rather take care of themselves than with their long term partner. That I can't begin to wrap my head around.
Anyway, how are things with you?
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