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[grandmasterkim]

Nobody satisfies me like her. Men usually do things that make me see them as unsexy and want to do someone else. I actually don't want to fuck other people because I worry that it will just be a disappointment compared to her

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[n00by]

No matter how much someone says they don't "want" a relationship, everyone craves it to some degree as it's pretty much programed in to our DNA at some level. I know very few people in the thousands that have floated through my life that are truly content to be alone always, it's mostly a defense mechanism.

You'll never know until you try, just like you tried here. Comparing people, in any aspect, is simply part of the learning and growing experience.

I wouldn't say it sounds unhealthy, but I would say it sounds like you're trying to convince yourself that the physical aspect is worth more then any other aspect that may be causing you hardship or second thoughts.

The fact that she has changed for you however, seems to indicate that she is digging the relationship though and maybe is willing to work on it, or could it just be a possesive problem.

Either way, communication is key to a relationship and it seems that aspect needs to be worked on, the physicality won't last forever (well it may last forever, but relationships will not sustain only on physical merits.).