Comments | gooniegal: see.... this is a good reason why I'm not married.

gooniegal

see.... this is a good reason why I'm not married.

Oct 26, 2008 21:56

You Would Be a Good Spouse 40% of the Time

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jade_teacup October 27 2008, 02:38:47 UTC

You sound a bit like me. I really don't know if I could be married either. My temper isn't what it used to be, but I am very set in my ways and little things really annoy me.

gooniegal October 27 2008, 12:46:16 UTC

I here you there. People don't realize how much work it takes to make a marriage. If I'm gonna put in that much effort ever in my life, I hope I really really love the guy. I can't see myself doing it right now in my life though.

jade_teacup October 28 2008, 00:49:31 UTC

f I'm gonna put in that much effort ever in my life, I hope I really really love the guy.

AMEN! If more people considered the true nature of commitment, there would be less troubled marriages, that's for sure.

I sometimes tell myself I'm ready to settle down and be domesticated, but honestly, at 31, I don't think I'm anywhere near the place where I can co-inhabit with anyone. I don't want my life turned upside down.

gooniegal October 28 2008, 00:52:04 UTC

same here at 29. :D the only thing is I'm not getting any younger and if I'm not ready now, I'd be I'll probably never be ready. ;) unless I get married at 60 haha then I'll be so used to being single I won't even know how to adapt to anyone else. ;)

jade_teacup October 28 2008, 00:56:03 UTC

I think I'll be one of those 60 years old guys ready to commit, but unwilling to change my persnickety ways. hee hee I'll be the slightly femme old man in the neighborhood with long nails and handsome Chinese gardener. ;)

Seriously, I do think about adopting children, wanting a companion in the future, but I don't know what to do about those things now!

gooniegal October 28 2008, 01:03:12 UTC

well we are not that old. and you can still adopt at 40 or even 50 so that's good. just get yourself a man in his 30's haha. :D

well I guess whatever happens in life, will happen. :D should be interesting to see what the future has in store.

jade_teacup October 28 2008, 04:37:32 UTC

and you can still adopt at 40 or even 50 so that's good. just get yourself a man in his 30's haha. :D

:D Hee hee Well, there is a guy that is interested in me....he's 19. WHen I'm 50 he'll be 38. But he sort of scares me!

D should be interesting to see what the future has in store.

^_^ True. I learned a long time ago that one can never anticipate the good nor the bad that life has in store. And I guess that is for the best.

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