Uh, my bad...

[godix]

This divorce has turned me into such a whiny emo bastard. I've been even worse than hast was at his peak. For the last couple months where I was emoraging, I really damage a lot of my friendships. One of those friends is what helped me out of it. You ever have one of those moments where your mind just goes 'stop. Just stop' and in an instant your

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[dwchang]

I thought things were improving on the divorce front or was I mistaken when I read your post about going on vacation?

[godix]

We're in a trial separation period. We'll see how things work out. My wife views it as we will get back together and there's a slim chance I actually meant it when I asked for a divorce. I view it as I meant it when I asked for one and there's a slim chance we'll get back together. There are some positive signs, like the Memphis zoo trip and there are some negative signs, like nothing has truly changed about our dynamic. Regardless, I will be married well into 2011. Illinois requires 6 months of separation before you can file for divorce. So even if we both agreed on a divorce this very minute, we couldn't file until December at earliest. Then it's on average another four to six months after filing before the actual court date and divorce go through. Which, I suppose, gives plenty of time to work on things