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Ok, now that i have cooled down, and have somewhat of a level head...

Aug 22, 2009 23:20

Please read the entire post before you decide to pass judgement

I somewhat have a more level head...i say somewhat...because before i read someone's journal...i was doing ok...but now i see that she's going to make this a cluster fuck and as tony said "she's waaaaay over reacting. she has a right to her feelings but this is taking it a little to far ( Read more... )

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dragoon811 August 23 2009, 17:21:18 UTC

Well... perhaps the best way to avoid this in the future... is to post any potentially-hurtful rants as your-eyes-only....

Then later you can look it over and think "will this hurt anyone?". If yes, keep it private. If no, post it as public.

Anyways.... hope you find a job soon, keep up the good work. :) Gz to Tony on his loss, too ^__^.

And honestly.. yes, she's overreacting, too... just a tiny bit. She needs to have fully read your entry... then sat back and waited before making some huge journal deal about it. Or talked to you directly...instead of making herself look like a total bitch. Yes, I called her a bitch and I don't even know her... I'm entitled to my opinion, too!! :)

(and heeeeeey! don't knock WoW! I kid ^,~. )

And I still like ya! I feel a little targeted cuz I know I need to lose weight.. but I also don't feel targeted because I'm doing something about it. ^,^.

So..cheer up and don't let that bitch live rent-free in your head!!

dragoon811 August 23 2009, 17:40:29 UTC

http://yen-sama.livejournal.com/62661.html

Jen DID have a chat with her before the whole thing blew out of proportion.

dragoon811 August 23 2009, 17:43:09 UTC

*waves away the link* Have the decency to post under your own name.
Then shame on her still for posting and making herself look bad. Astra's already admitted her err. Shame on her for not being the better person and sinking to pettiness.

dragoon811 August 23 2009, 18:17:12 UTC

I don't have an LJ name, but at least I can say I provided you with facts. If you want to wave them away, that's no longer my problem.

Side with your friend. You can do what you like. Too bad she's in the wrong.

dragoon811 August 23 2009, 18:48:46 UTC

Then make one - And either you're lying since you're replying relatively quickly that you have email alerts and are just CHOOSING to post as anonymous..or you have no life and are repeatedly checking this thread ( ... )

o.O little_xaia August 23 2009, 19:27:22 UTC

I'm in the same boat as you! Bad knees, horrible genetics and I'm BLACK so I apparently have this predisposition to being plump in places and there's bad hearts in my family ( ... )

Re: o.O dragoon811 August 23 2009, 20:01:50 UTC

Aye :-D Doing something about it is the way to go! :-D ( ... )

Re: o.O little_xaia August 23 2009, 20:10:52 UTC

Thankuuu. You too. ^o^

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At any rate, yeah. I take everything my friends say with a grain of salt. Most of our jokes have to do with either sex or race.. or interracial sex (lmao, I'm kidding >.>) SO it's always like 'Wtf..' and funny five seconds later.

That is true about the internet. I give more advice I probably shouldn't. Bua.

Later though, Dragoon. Mind if I add you?

Re: o.O dragoon811 August 23 2009, 20:20:50 UTC

Thanks ^,^.

~*~

Eh, I trust that the friends I have are good enough friends that we'll still love each other after a fight... I have a friend who can say "I'll call you back in 30min" and 2 weeks later calls... but we always pick up right where we left off, and I cherish that. If a friend really irrevocably hurts me, it's over and done and I'll write them a polite, well-thought out email telling them why I no longer desire to be their friend... kind of like the nicest break-up letter ever.

I try REALLY hard to not make race or religion or politics jokes...and the term "gay" used as a negative is a mega pet peeve of mine... (and did I mention I have an awful tendency to ramble?) but yeah/... even "....wth?!?!" jokes ARE funny later with good friends. :)

lol I do too... I poke my nose in...

Sure, go for it. :) I write more than I read but even then it's not much. :) Have a good day, I'm going back to leveling my priest!!

Re: o.O little_xaia August 23 2009, 20:39:40 UTC

Ohh, good idea. *Goes to jump on her shaman to de-stress before heading out* ^o^

Re: o.O dragoon811 August 23 2009, 20:40:22 UTC

*giggles*
Horde or Alliance?

Re: o.O little_xaia August 23 2009, 20:50:24 UTC

>.>! Horde.

Did you see the trailer for the new patch? >D

Re: o.O dragoon811 August 23 2009, 20:51:37 UTC

Huzzah, me too!! On Llane server. :)

AND I SO DID!!!

I cannot WAIT for a tauren paladin!!! I want one...I even know what I'm going to name it!!!

(Don't mind me, I'm terribly excited for WoWC and Guild Wars 2 lol)

Re: o.O little_xaia August 23 2009, 20:12:33 UTC

Nuuu, I didn't mean 'follower' like that XD

Follower like watcher. YouTube, Twitter-talk. XD Aha.

Re: o.O dragoon811 August 23 2009, 20:14:17 UTC

lol Astra's a good friend of mine... was a bridesmaid at my wedding last fall.
She's actually one of 3 people I read on here.

dragoon811 August 23 2009, 19:33:27 UTC

Actually, Jen is skinnier than Astra.

Astra wouldn't go around making discriminating comments about other races, genders, and sexualities, so why be discriminant towards large people, when she, herself is a large person. It would be like a black person hating black peeople for being black, a man hating other men for being men, or a homophobic homosexual.

In FACT, lobbyists are trying to push to make discrimination by weight and size illegal since Fat-hate is a big deal. Health problems span all size groups. Small people can have diabetes.

Astra is discriminating, stereotyping, and hypocritical. and Jen isn't the only one who sees this.

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