guys
So here's my dilemma. A Friend and I went to a club last weekend and picked up the same guy. It was morelike a group pickup since we met him and his friends. While in the club getting another drink this guy (Jeff is his name) started making out with my friend and feeding her the same lines he was feeding me. I was a little pissed at her since i told her i thought he was cute and it kinda pushed her game into high gear. In order to get back at her I discreetly put my phone number on a piece of paper and put it in his pocket without any one noticing. He was very intrigued by that. By this time there was about three girls around him all trying to get his attention. he asked me to join in the fun but I decided I had more class than that. That intrigued him more. So he ended up calling me on wed to go out but i wasn't home. I then found out that he called my friend about half an hour after calling me and they made a date for the next thursday(which he cancelled). After talking to my friend we discovered he was trying to play us and did a crappy job. She decided that he wasn't worth it and has backed off. However I really like him and think that I should give him another chance. So he called me again to make a date but unfortunately i've been busy every weekend so we are going out tentatively on July 9. Now everyone that i talk to thinks he's a creep since he tried to play us and advise me not to go out with him. not sure what i should do but i know i really like him but at the same time i don't wanna get hurt.