Feb 07, 2006 21:54
yea chris and i are back together, we are going to make an effort to work on our relationship, we are goin to read this christian couples book togher about understanding eachother and how to deal with conflict etc.. he is also going to listen to "men are from mars, woman are from venus" i listened to that tape today and it addressed the very issues we were having problems with... now that i understand how a guy thinks better and think i can better go about this, and hopefully by doing the above things he will understand better where i am comming from etc... i am grateful for another oppertunity to make this work... im kinda excited and see it as a challenge... i know he is a good man and is trying to get closer to God and he really wants to make this work... i know im really blessed... im going to start trying to only talk good about him behind his back, and assuming the best... thats really the godly things to do, and really he deserves that and it will help our relationship... so i think its a win, win situation... now if i can just keep priorities right and not be so consumed with this that the rest of my life suffers... i want to be balanced and healthy... but thank God and thanks so all of you who prayed and give me advice and encouragemnet...