Warning: this is extremely long and dramatic. There will be a TL;DR at the end, by the way... lulz.
So I dated a guy last year for like... 9 months. In that time, I fell head-over-heels for him. He was smart, funny, charming, and so handsome I blushed every time I looked at him. We had what I thought was going to be my first serious relationship
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I'm probably more like him though. I have chronic dissociation so I could never be in a relationship because It's impossible for me to be emotionally involved in anything let alone anyone. Saying that though, he should be more aware of other peoples thoughts and feelings. Being emotionally retarded, he should be more attuned ~objectively~ to how other people behave.
Idk, It's quite strange that he couldn't or doesn't want to realize why you can't be friends with him anymore, which I totally understand. You've gotta do what you've gotta do and It would be a whole world of hurt to go back to that situation.
How BS for you that someone who could have been perfect could have been so close but sooo soooooo far : (
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Didn't really want to go into the whole sociopathy thing in the post. It was long enough, lol. But yeah, he knows what he's doing, and what he's doing *to me*, he just doesn't *care* about anything other than his own ego. When I satisfy that for him, we're gravy, but if he gets bored... well, then he just wants to 'be friends'. Hell to the no. Being friends (or anything, really) with a sociopath is only going to benefit one person, and it ain't gonna be the 'friend'.
I've moved on, but yeah, the fact that we could've had something amazing if Charlie wasn't mentally imbalanced is always gonna hurt my pride, if nothing else.
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perfect but emotionally unavailable guy, who i was actually living with (though he was cooking for me, not the opposite like in you case), and i thought i would be okay with being "just friends" as we were calling it, but now i am not sure i can. he kicked me out a week ago, because my emotions are too much for him right now, but we are still friends (only now it's the conventional meaning of the word).
i was never married, but 3 years ago i had a break up that literally almost killed me. and here i thought i could live with this perfect guy, just being "friends", without falling for him.......
you are so strong, telling him you don't want that kind of relationship.
i hope it will be okay soon!!
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