Sweet misery..

[gckid]

I've been patiently awaiting the phone call telling me JJ has made it home...and yet..I still haven't got one. I'm kinda worried, but, I don't wanna call because what if he's home and just doesn't want to speak to me after the fight we got into the other night? I'm scared. I don't know what to do. So, I guess I'll be the typical girl and wait

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[youstoletherain]

Relationships are a lot about compromise, and understanding where the other person is coming from.

It's hard, very hard, but when you're able to seriously see where you're bf/gf is coming from you'll be able to understand them and not get into such stupid little fights.

At least that's what I try to do. I'm still a dumbass sometimes, but we've been together almost a year and a half, I love him, and I couldn't see myself with anyone else.

Just hand in there <333

[youstoletherain]

and of course by hand in there I mean hang in there.

Oy I'm a doofus :\

[gckid]

Heh. I knew whatcha meant. :)

[gckid]

Thanks so much. The problem is, we aren't bf/gf. He's been my best friend for 3 years and it's a back and forth situation. He liked me during high school and I didn't liek him like that, then after high school I fell for him and he didn't like me like that. It's a huge mess. And now, he's in the Army, so he thinks that I'm just missin' him and makin up these feelings. But, I'm not.

Thanks for your input, though. It means a lot that someone out there actually cares. I really appreciate it.

[youstoletherain]

Well even if you two aren't bf/gf...being as that you do love him...it's still a very similar situation. Boys can be dumbfaces sometimes...but so can girls :\

And man, you two have been through the run around :O that sucks that you would like each other at different times :\

It's hard to try to keep quiet so you don't start any kind of 'drama' but it's also not a good thing to keep quiet when you feel you're not wrong. He needs to see that he can be wrong too.

<33

[gckid]

Yeah, I totally understand where you're coming from. He'll be home anytime now. Hes on his way home from Georgia today because he graduated Airborne school yesterday and gets a week leave. So, when he gets here he said we're going to take a long ride and 'talk' about things. I'm just going to tell him what's up.

Thanks for listenin' to me whine. :)

[youstoletherain]

Just be sure to let your feelings known. You can't keep things like that bottled up, just making him happy and making yourself miserable.

Dude, no problem :) Sometimes you just need someone to hear you out, and let you just, well, vent! <33

[gckid]

You guys can IM me anytime. My screennames on AOL are ifwinterendsbe and piercedri0tgirl. I'm always connected. But, for now, I'm going to go get some food. I'm wasting away. Thanks again!