Hijole!
Had another chat with said person today. She apologized for being overly harsh and for not being a good friend. I told her my feelings and that it hurts to constantly be told your faults by someone who's supposed to be your friend. She seems to really still want to be my friend. But should I allow it? Will the same thing happen again? I told her that I felt like a woman who's in denial about her abusive relationship. I want to give her a second chance because she can be fun, but our best conversations are on AIM. She wants to hang out. I don't right now. We did end up having a really good conversation, but it doesn't mean that things are patched up. Before she left she asked, "Does this mean we're talking now?" I said, "For today at least." Then she said she could live with that.
The past couple years of being her friend have just been too much drama - drama that we both contributed to. Should I be her friend just so she can have someone to talk about more grown-up things, when her other girlfriends are practically still teenagers and don't even feel comfortable talking about vibrators?
The past couple years of being her friend have just been too much drama - drama that we both contributed to. Should I be her friend just so she can have someone to talk about more grown-up things, when her other girlfriends are practically still teenagers and don't even feel comfortable talking about vibrators?