Getting my life back together (to-do lists)
What I have planned for this weekend and today:
- Beta DD3's fic
- Beta that other person's fic
- Revise/finish Drunk and Disorderly
- Sync MBU chapters 41-44
- Rewatch Heroes
- Keep up on MBU
- Go out and get laid again ... because that was pretty damn cool
- Water my trees
- Fix the mower
- Mow the lawn
- Go get mulch
- Fry up the green tomatoes (and/or freeze some)
- I can consolidate my 401ks and IRAs (couldn't do that before because it would complicate dividing assets)
- I can pay off the credit card ($10,000 now, the rest in August - these were bills my ex ran up on my card after separation)
- I will get that HPV vaccination (don't know why I haven't done this already)
- I will set up appointments for my son with the therapist again (these got put on hold as I didn't know if I'd have custody from one week to the next)
- I'll get the house in my name alone and finally be free of any financial entanglements with him (given his likelihood of declaring bankruptcy or having creditors hounding him, this is really important)
- I can box up the last of his stuff and everything else in the house will be mine
- I'll buy replacements for what he takes that's actually necessary
- I can work out a budget now that I know my outgo, and from that budget I'll be able to work out how to save up for that eye surgery that I want, and when I can pay off my student loan
Bigger scale things I can take care of now that the divorce is finalized: