~.: My LJ is turning out to be a bipolar ranting space. 8D At any rate, I don't really wanna talk about how depressed I am over my finances for the umpteenth time. I have no money, you all know it, life goes on sucking
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No, I trust you, at least, of all people to never prejudge, or even post judge someone to be a horrible person. You and I are alike in that way -- we hardly ever think of people as inherently bad or evil. :) Tis why I love you. ♥
And I understand and genuinely appreciate the concern for my safety. Like I said, I really and truly feel that alcohol played a bigger role in encouraging him to just do as he pleased; sober, I feel he has as many inhibitions as any other good male friend we know, and genuinely cares enough about people to not want to consciously take advantage of them. As frustrated as I've been with him in the past, I've never once felt unsafe, and I still don't. But I don't expect anyone to just go on my word, because the truth of the situation is still raw, and it's pretty much the only thing anyone has to go on regarding judgement of him as a safe person.
I understand that this will take a very, very long time to clear up for everyone involved, if it ever does for Jenna at all. Guille may not be a bad person, but he did a bad thing, and I can understand that being more than difficult to overlook, especially since the bad thing involved taking advantage of someone.
I don't know that he and I can continue to keep bringing it up, because it's still so fresh that all it will result in is frustration from both of us; in any case, I want to be sure I can fully understand and accept the position I would present to him before asking him to accept it as well, so perhaps letting it be for the time being is best.
And I understand and genuinely appreciate the concern for my safety. Like I said, I really and truly feel that alcohol played a bigger role in encouraging him to just do as he pleased; sober, I feel he has as many inhibitions as any other good male friend we know, and genuinely cares enough about people to not want to consciously take advantage of them. As frustrated as I've been with him in the past, I've never once felt unsafe, and I still don't. But I don't expect anyone to just go on my word, because the truth of the situation is still raw, and it's pretty much the only thing anyone has to go on regarding judgement of him as a safe person.
I understand that this will take a very, very long time to clear up for everyone involved, if it ever does for Jenna at all. Guille may not be a bad person, but he did a bad thing, and I can understand that being more than difficult to overlook, especially since the bad thing involved taking advantage of someone.
I don't know that he and I can continue to keep bringing it up, because it's still so fresh that all it will result in is frustration from both of us; in any case, I want to be sure I can fully understand and accept the position I would present to him before asking him to accept it as well, so perhaps letting it be for the time being is best.
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