Oh, I also seem to have made a mistake with a guy...
We went out to dinner a few times and I told him up front I didn't want to get involved, but he said we could be just friends. Now he's getting possessive and talking about finishing his MBA and then moving to where ever it is I end up. He's one of those guys that needs to be in a relationship and as much as it would be nice to have someone in my life he just isn't the one I want but, he made a good friend until he started trying to convince me, coerce and corner me into agreeing to a relationship. He wants more then I'm willing to give and he just won't back off. Maybe running away and changing my name is the best option at this point... at least it would get rid of a few guys that can't take a hint or a blatant "go the fuck away" and my ex wouldn't have an easy time of tracking me down any more...