thoughts...open forum

[frantic_raver]

I've been wanting to post for a few days but I hadn't really thought about how to word what I've been thinking. I've been thinking a few things that I would like to hear your thoughts on. To help me understand things a bit better

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[sunnnny]

It feels really strange sometimes when people just blurt out all their personal issues. I deal with quite a few people who do self-harm(cutting and things like that, and most recently, drinking half a bottle of Toilet Duck cleaner ugh!) and I try not to talk about what they've done, or why they've done it unless they bring it up. I'd hate to freak out an already unbalanced person by bringing up issues they don't want to talk about. But for those that just chat away like there's no tomorrow, there isn't really much I can say to them and most of the time I think they just need someone to listen and not say anything anyway. It definitely makes the job interesting though.

And my definition? I think if the intent is there, then that's cheating, even if hardly anything happens. If you're out with someone having a drink and you're actually thinking "i want things to go further" I would consider that cheating. Especially if your partner doesn't know you're out with this person or the circumstances of the outing. And then of course, any physical/sexual contact is cheating.