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[frantic_raver]

I've been wanting to post for a few days but I hadn't really thought about how to word what I've been thinking. I've been thinking a few things that I would like to hear your thoughts on. To help me understand things a bit better

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[undergroundsea]

1. I knew a friend that had aneorexia-bullemia. She recovered to the point where she wasn't starving or throwing up her food, and ate regular meals. However there were certain foods she would still avoid - and I guess that's okay. I think with any disorder it takes life-long management and always having to make the right choices for yourself (a bit like an addiction). What we often see is just the behaviour, it is hard for us to understand the layers of thoughts and fears behind it. That's the real problem, constantly challenging your thoughts about fat, eating and whatever you're frightened about deep down.

2. I've heard that we look for in other people what we lack, or think we lack in ourselves. We admire it, want to learn from it - or usually just have someone else do what we can't do for us. And that can be pretty dangerous and unhealthy. I think that's why it is so important to be in a strong place with yourself before you meet anyone new. I don't think you can judge what someone will be attracted to solely on looks, because every now and then you see a hot chick with a really average girlfriend lol

3. I'd be grossed out equally, but moreso if my gf cheated with a man. I just don't want sperm and penis anywhere near what I touch lol I think I'd be equally betrayed, equally angry - but I'd probably get more of a recovery high by her cheating with a man, than thinking she left me for another girl. Either way, I'd claim she was a skank and hate her for life *g*

[frantic_raver]

Interesting stuff hey!

LOL not trying too sound too full of myself but my ex was a LOT average. Next to her I looked fucking hot! I have more to add but need to think about it some more and get some food in me!