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[formerfetus]

GangStarr - Moment of Truth
Nobody's invincible no plan is foolproof
We all must meet our moment of truth
It's universal, you play with fire it may hurt you
or burn you, lessons are blessings you should learn through
But just as you'll receive what is comin to you
Everybody else is gonna get theirs too
Actions have reactions, don't be quick to judge
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[ladydiana]

Also a Guav referral, and I just read every single one of the stories posted on your website.

You know, I think that actually cements a lot of my fear that I'm having over formerfetus having her abortion. My friend had one, locally provided by Planned Parenthood, and they apparently didn't get everything (I believe she had a D&C, and I *know* she had to go back to have another one several weeks later because of the clotting). The hospital was INCREDIBLY rude to her...they basically refused to attend to her.

My own experience at PP was less than stellar, and that was just for an annual. The physician seemed distracted, the slide broke in transit and I was told to come back and do another exam, blah blah blah. I...just...a general feeling of...disinterest? I don't know. It bothers me.

Some of the stories on that site, too...same thing. Distracted rude doctors, inattentive, rude nurses, lack of adequate pain management. And then the fear of what happens after; what if it's "botched" bad enough that someone needs follow-up, and they can't get it. Another woman I know (who is in nursing school) was saying she has encountered medical professionals who have refused to attend to women who are having doctor ORDERED abortions because the fetus's condition is considered "incompatible with life", and you know...I'm not sure those nurses should *HAVE* that right. Not if they're in OB/GYN or well woman or emergency care.

Never been pregnant, though (at least, not to my knowledge), so I should probably quit stressing over it. :P