I got some advice from a friend. "Don't introduce sex into the relationship unless it's something you're both ready for, and something you've discussed... otherwise, it's just going to all go downhill."
I don't want my relationship with Gabe to be just based on our sexual little gestures and whatnot [or even all the things we do behind closed doors], but one night it seemed like it to me, so I stopped doing what I was doing and just hugged him.
Sex can kill a relationship. Soon, one person will want so much from the other, and the other doesn't want to give it... and that other person get's angry and fights start to happen...
I'm probably just being totally random and talking about this for no good reason, and it probably doesn't relate to anything above except "I hope with all of my heart that it isn't sex keeping them, together, for that would mean Chris is a forever changed man; one I'm not sure I could befriend, ever again."
And to speak from personal experience... I once dated a guy because I knew how experienced he was with sex... and I wanted to do it, too. I dumped him, though, because I knew that's all he wanted after I finally decided that I just wanted to get to know him. Mention this, if you and Chris ever decide to talk again: "Sex isn't what it seems to be." It's posed as this magical experience where everything is completely perfect. All I have to say is, "Psh." It's not what you see in the movies.
"Don't introduce sex into the relationship unless it's something you're both ready for, and something you've discussed... otherwise, it's just going to all go downhill."
I don't want my relationship with Gabe to be just based on our sexual little gestures and whatnot [or even all the things we do behind closed doors], but one night it seemed like it to me, so I stopped doing what I was doing and just hugged him.
Sex can kill a relationship. Soon, one person will want so much from the other, and the other doesn't want to give it... and that other person get's angry and fights start to happen...
I'm probably just being totally random and talking about this for no good reason, and it probably doesn't relate to anything above except "I hope with all of my heart that it isn't sex keeping them, together, for that would mean Chris is a forever changed man; one I'm not sure I could befriend, ever again."
And to speak from personal experience... I once dated a guy because I knew how experienced he was with sex... and I wanted to do it, too. I dumped him, though, because I knew that's all he wanted after I finally decided that I just wanted to get to know him. Mention this, if you and Chris ever decide to talk again: "Sex isn't what it seems to be."
It's posed as this magical experience where everything is completely perfect. All I have to say is, "Psh."
It's not what you see in the movies.
Keep this quiet, my friend.
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