Friends Cut
If you're reading this and not much else, then you were cut, and you may wonder why, though I gave FAIR enough warning yesterday. There is one reason alone that I cut you, and it has nothing to do with how much I like or dislike you. Some of you I've known for a long time, in person even, and some I barely know at all and have never met.
I do not want anyone on my list that is not my friend.
So, what then, is my defintion of a friend?
To me, friendship is an active two way street, where you give and take, where you defend each other, and have fun. Friendship is NOT about just having a good time, and then disappearing when times get rough.
Throughout this whole saga with a certain someone, I have been hurt endlessly after each time she causes something. And what do my "Friends" do? They disappear, ignore me, and make me feel terrible. Ladies and gentlemen, this is not friendship. If someone does something wrong to your friend, YOU STAND UP FOR THEM. You do not conveniently stand on the fence and save yourself.
How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Not wanting to get involved in an argument is one thing, but standing aside when someone is treating another person like shit, lying, and stealing things is a completely different thing entirely.
And some of you have said that this isn't fair to you. Is it fair to me to have NO ONE to depend on when shit starts? No, it's not.
I absolutely will not be involved with people who call themselves my friend, but would not do the same things for me that I would do for them. That's not fair to me. It's not fair to waste my time and PRETEND To be my friend when you're not. It is not fair to me for me to be in a situation where someone else is doing something wrong, and NO ONE calls them on it, or does anything about it.
I even asked Bradley if I was wrong, if I was being too drastic, too idealistic. And Bradley said something that finally hit me like a ton of bricks, "I just think that your idea of friendship is more conventional than what LiveJournal has turned it into these days." He is absolutely right.
I am not here to be cosplay buddies or LJ friends. I'm here to write about my life, my personal, private life, that I want my friends to read. Not some stranger, or someone that doesn't give two shits about me. That's why it's friends only.
If you were cut, and don't know about the situation, feel free to tell me so via email or aim. I'll friend you temporarily to see it. Because it's quite possibe that I didn't give enough time to some people time to respond.
For the rest of you, best of luck with your lives, and I hope some of you can surround yourself with real friends and know how to handle that.
And as for
niphrodel don't think that you're getting away with this. In fact, I can and will take you to court for it. It's just pathetic that you're the one starting petty drama to get my attention or whatever. I feel sorry for you when you get into the real world, litte girl. If you can't afford to go, then don't go. What's going to happen when it comes down to you paying your bills or going to a con? I really hope you grow up some time soon. Having being crazy on your record is bad enough, nevermind theft. I abhor stealing and the LAST people that stole from me were taken to court, fined, some were put into juvenile detention centers (because they weren't 18), and they were fined. So don't think you will get away with it. Also, don't drag your friend into it since I have already informed her that what you are trying to sell her is stolen. And it is also illegal for someone to buy something that they have been informed is stolen. And if she's paying by paypal, there's a record, so her ass will most definitely be in trouble.
I do not want anyone on my list that is not my friend.
So, what then, is my defintion of a friend?
To me, friendship is an active two way street, where you give and take, where you defend each other, and have fun. Friendship is NOT about just having a good time, and then disappearing when times get rough.
Throughout this whole saga with a certain someone, I have been hurt endlessly after each time she causes something. And what do my "Friends" do? They disappear, ignore me, and make me feel terrible. Ladies and gentlemen, this is not friendship. If someone does something wrong to your friend, YOU STAND UP FOR THEM. You do not conveniently stand on the fence and save yourself.
How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Not wanting to get involved in an argument is one thing, but standing aside when someone is treating another person like shit, lying, and stealing things is a completely different thing entirely.
And some of you have said that this isn't fair to you. Is it fair to me to have NO ONE to depend on when shit starts? No, it's not.
I absolutely will not be involved with people who call themselves my friend, but would not do the same things for me that I would do for them. That's not fair to me. It's not fair to waste my time and PRETEND To be my friend when you're not. It is not fair to me for me to be in a situation where someone else is doing something wrong, and NO ONE calls them on it, or does anything about it.
I even asked Bradley if I was wrong, if I was being too drastic, too idealistic. And Bradley said something that finally hit me like a ton of bricks, "I just think that your idea of friendship is more conventional than what LiveJournal has turned it into these days." He is absolutely right.
I am not here to be cosplay buddies or LJ friends. I'm here to write about my life, my personal, private life, that I want my friends to read. Not some stranger, or someone that doesn't give two shits about me. That's why it's friends only.
If you were cut, and don't know about the situation, feel free to tell me so via email or aim. I'll friend you temporarily to see it. Because it's quite possibe that I didn't give enough time to some people time to respond.
For the rest of you, best of luck with your lives, and I hope some of you can surround yourself with real friends and know how to handle that.
And as for
niphrodel don't think that you're getting away with this. In fact, I can and will take you to court for it. It's just pathetic that you're the one starting petty drama to get my attention or whatever. I feel sorry for you when you get into the real world, litte girl. If you can't afford to go, then don't go. What's going to happen when it comes down to you paying your bills or going to a con? I really hope you grow up some time soon. Having being crazy on your record is bad enough, nevermind theft. I abhor stealing and the LAST people that stole from me were taken to court, fined, some were put into juvenile detention centers (because they weren't 18), and they were fined. So don't think you will get away with it. Also, don't drag your friend into it since I have already informed her that what you are trying to sell her is stolen. And it is also illegal for someone to buy something that they have been informed is stolen. And if she's paying by paypal, there's a record, so her ass will most definitely be in trouble.