1) Done. 2) Done. 3) I think done, depending on how you mean that (inserts: most of my favourite people are boys. I hug and cuddle most of them. I will generally happily kiss anyone who at least makes an effort not to grow facial hair.). 4) YMMV, it seems. 5) Done. 6) Never actually done...a work in progress. 7) Getting better all the time.
caution: bluntness aheadflamingswordJuly 8 2005, 18:44:59 UTC
Let me lay this on the line. I have a low sex drive. Doug doesn't. Doug needs more sex, and I want to watch. And help, but my sexual needs are met and exceeded. You and the penetrative sex thing . . . not so much with the fun. I like you, and I would give this a try, but for one other factor: You're too much like me. Scarily over-informed girls should be one per relationship. And I say this because the Hermione-impersonating habit I have annoys me. You have it, too. And that's going to aggravate me, eventually. I'm sometimes irrational and whiny, and won't admit it for hours, and that's going to annoy you.
I have already tried once, dating someone my instincts said not to, and hey, y'know those instincts are there for a reason. It was hurtful to him, horrid for me, and I felt like an ass for even thinking that I could make it work. (Because I'm so smart I can fix anything, even other people . . .) I'm never going into that situation again. Sorry.
I appreciate the clarity. You know I'm mad smitten with you. I spent some time thinking it was mutual, some time thinking that it wasn't, and a lot of time in between being really damn confused. I'm kinda wishing we'd had this conversation a fairly long time ago, as I've sorta had my hopes up that if a lot of the ifs cleared (If Doug didn't hate me, If I could maybe kinda be into him, If I didn't make things move too fast or want to move in with y'all, etc) then there was a possibility
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2) Done.
3) I think done, depending on how you mean that (inserts: most of my favourite people are boys. I hug and cuddle most of them. I will generally happily kiss anyone who at least makes an effort not to grow facial hair.).
4) YMMV, it seems.
5) Done.
6) Never actually done...a work in progress.
7) Getting better all the time.
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I have already tried once, dating someone my instincts said not to, and hey, y'know those instincts are there for a reason. It was hurtful to him, horrid for me, and I felt like an ass for even thinking that I could make it work. (Because I'm so smart I can fix anything, even other people . . .)
I'm never going into that situation again.
Sorry.
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