hoping...and waiting...things that i cant bear
i realized today how much time people spend talking about the things that they WISH were happening right now and almost losing focus on what IS happening right now. there are some certain things that cannot be changed no matter how many times you say 'if only'. we need to learn to work with what we have and concentrate on what we can do with our current resources in our current situation instead of fantasizing about what we could do if things were different. it is hard for things to happen successfully-and even at all-if you refuse to entertain the notion that what we have now is what we have now.