For Shame...
I don't know what to do. Here's the deal. Yesterday, my girlfriend was here. While we were sitting on the couch watching Brokeback Mountain, Tott called me(my ex-fling turned good friend/my gf's arch-nemesis). Me and Tott haven't talked in a long time so I start talking to her. Korin gets upset and starts to leave the house. I tell her I'm going to walk with her and I tell Tott I'll call her back. Tott is like, "Are you serious?"
Okay, so I have no idea why Tott would be react that way. The ONLY reason I think she would react that way is because while we were talking, she told her boyfriend she'll call him back later because she's on the phone with me. That aside, I'm a people's pleaser. So, despite whatever reason she had to get "pissed", I didn't want to piss her off.
Korin gets mad that I'm talking on the phone with a girl while walking her home. I hang up with Tott and she's pissed. Korin is still pissed. I'm like, "I walk you home every single day. You can't get mad at me if I'm on the phone for one of the walks." and she's like, "You can talk to her on your own time."
That's the thing. I don't really have my own time since me and her got together. If she's here for 12+ hours every single day then it makes it hard for me to talk to friends. And, on the rare occasion that I am talking to friends, I can't talk about what I want because she's always around. Whatever. I don't want to bitch about how she's always here. The main problem is that I try to please everyone and ended up getting everyone pissed at me... AGAIN!
Okay, so I have no idea why Tott would be react that way. The ONLY reason I think she would react that way is because while we were talking, she told her boyfriend she'll call him back later because she's on the phone with me. That aside, I'm a people's pleaser. So, despite whatever reason she had to get "pissed", I didn't want to piss her off.
Korin gets mad that I'm talking on the phone with a girl while walking her home. I hang up with Tott and she's pissed. Korin is still pissed. I'm like, "I walk you home every single day. You can't get mad at me if I'm on the phone for one of the walks." and she's like, "You can talk to her on your own time."
That's the thing. I don't really have my own time since me and her got together. If she's here for 12+ hours every single day then it makes it hard for me to talk to friends. And, on the rare occasion that I am talking to friends, I can't talk about what I want because she's always around. Whatever. I don't want to bitch about how she's always here. The main problem is that I try to please everyone and ended up getting everyone pissed at me... AGAIN!