How do you know when it's right?
When a couple starts getting serious about thier relationship? Not meaning about sex or anything like that, but really getting serious about if they really believe that the one they are with, like making your and thier habits work or anything like related to that, but what I really mean, when you say those three simple words...I Love You...Does that mean that they are the one for you? But it starts to make you think, is this relatinship right? I mean The One, or however you want to say it...You know deep inside you that you care about them and you feel that you love them...but does that mean its "The One"...the one relationship that its the person who you will spend the rest of your life with? This, and I have to admit because its only few who really read it...It was friday night, and it was me, Willie, Martin, and Norma...Martin and Willie were having a shot and then another and by then they were buzz...Then Willie said to all of us that, "Sabias que una persona boracho, siempre dice la verdad?" and we were all like "si" and he says "Marlene, I love you" and I didn't know what to say...honestly, I didn't...I just grinned at him...and then he said "when we get married, I'm going to have Benny be my best man or maybe the priest, jajaja, you know how much shit he would say to me that day"...and to me, it was like "ok its because he's buzzed"...then again, he said on satuday day, after Benny had a talk with Martin and Willie about going up to Montana to go work there for a couple of weeks...Willie said "No" and Martin said he'd think about it...I asked Willie later on, why wouldn't he go up there and he said because..."It would be easier for Martin and Benny because they would have eachother and Eloy up there and I won't have anyone there. Also there is no one that I care about up there and I have my family here and you're the one that I love and you're here"...once again, i frozed up I didn't know what to say...so what I mean by this, if he loves me and I know i love him, is this relationship more than right? Is it "The One"? Never have I ever been more happy and content and everything so much that i just love everything about him...What i always thought love was, when you laugh at the little things they do that other people might think its weird, but you just adore...when they just do the oddest things, but draws you more to them...when you just absolutly adore and love everything about them even if its just big or small, you just love it...and also that you love the person they truely are...and no matter what they have done in the past, you accept them because its part of thier life and as well you want them to be part of yours...So, could this be true LOVE? I don't know, because I never really felt this way...for anyone...but I think I do...I Love him...I love Willie...Oh my god...thank god i'm only saying it to my friends...but then again, who cares...jajajaja...So to answer the question...I guess you can only know when its right when the feeling is so strong that....well, you'll figure it out when you fall in love people...jajajajaja......later