I haven't read the story tgstonebutch quotes in this entry, but I love the quote.

"Reid had always been told that she felt too much, wanted too much, had too much passion and lust and energy.  When she was with a woman who was really big and strong, she felt as if she had a place to pour all that intensity without destroying the vessel."

from "Big Girls", ( Read more... )

About a year ago, I wrote an odd little post on SM-F. People responded to the politics bits, but not to the sexual desire in it. I found that odd, and eventually just figured it was just one of those moments where something was wonderfully clear in my brain and nonsense elsewhere, so I just let it go.

Now I notice that Kiya linked it.

And I start to ( Read more... )

I'm the sort of strangely pervy person that finds this sort of thing quite hot.

I think part of it is actually the bizarreness of it all, the sense that most people couldn't do that, even though it's probably not true. My initial SM fantasies were very much like that: fantasies about things that were unrealistic, excessive, brutal if real... but ( Read more... )