Aaand now I'm depressed

[fid_gin]

Comments

[wickedgillie]

I don't blame you for being bummed. And I agree that both texts sound rather tetchy. Maybe there's more going on behind the scenes that you're unaware of.

[angel_b33]

I'm sorry to hear your friends are being hurtful. It sounds like it's especially tricky because there isn't an incident you can identify that might have caused it. It sounds like it has come out of the blue a bit. If you've not done anything different, then it sounds like it's their deal, their problem, something they've got to work out for themselves. In my experience people who put out the 'we're better than you' vibe do it because they feel the exact opposite and that you're better than them.
There really isnt much that I can say that will solve this for you, but maybe just recognising that in all likelyhood, you've not done anything wrong and this is something they have to figure out for themselves is helpful. Give it time, either they'll come back, or being the lovely people you seem to be, you'll find a way to move on, x

[papilio_luna]

Do you think it's possible that your friend has become a dry drunk (and his wife, his enabler in that?).

[10_point_5]

I'm sorry about your texts but I can help with something: the postcard was from me :) I assume it was anyway, I sent postcards to them what asked for them when I was going up north for my Nana's funeral at the start of December. I would've been whinging about the snow in it?

[fid_gin]

Yay, mystery solved! :D I knew it was from someone whom I had asked for a postcard, but it would have been so long ago I didn't know how to go digging to find out! Thank you again!

[10_point_5]

Heee! I'm glad you liked it :D

[susanb03]

I'm sorry to hear about your 'friend'. I had a good friend who went through a traumatic situation and had been a recovering achoholic and after the situation happend, she was a very different person. It's hard when 'friends' turn on you.