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Somewhat impromptu Zet Meet and other bits

Apr 23, 2007 15:25

Yesterday J and I organized a Zet Meet at our place to hang out with klari, who is only Pittsburgh once a year for CMU's Carnival. In doing so, I think we upset G n E, who seem uncomfortable with it because klari is G's ex-girlfriend. Needless to say, they did not show up. Others did though, and a fun time was had by all of us (To be fair, E apparently has ( Read more... )

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etsdtm99 April 24 2007, 03:24:06 UTC

Funnel Cakes are awesome!!!

they also put 'glaze' on them sometimes.. stickier but also less messy than powdered sugar on a windy day ..

now i want one.. and its 10:30pm on a monday night.. i think i'm out of luck there..

feydreams April 24 2007, 20:44:48 UTC

I was getting some powedered sugar blow-by in the wind. I too, sort of want one now, but carnival is over so I'm pretty much SOL. I'll just have to deep fry something tonight to make up for it.

itachimusume April 25 2007, 07:38:57 UTC

I remembered buying funnel cake the last time I was at the carnival. But it was kinda gimpy/skimpy, but I do remember it being yummy.

I had powdered sugar with mines

feydreams April 25 2007, 18:01:16 UTC

Bummer they were skimpy, the one I had was the size of a plate. Like belgian waffle sized and a lil thicker.

itachimusume April 24 2007, 05:06:49 UTC

girls hate all other girls. period. see, how easy of an explaination is that ;D

Also, I saw adam with jannie at dim sum, they never came up to say hello to me though =p

feydreams April 24 2007, 20:43:10 UTC

*sigh* people need to get over the stigma of being in contact with an ex. Really, it's just silly. Unless there is ample proof one ex will try to "steal away or seduce" the other from their current partner, it's all just immature and petty. Especially when said exes have been broken up for, gee about 4 years. I do believe that's enough time to get over it, unless the circumstances were particularly bitter. In your and Adam's case, that hardly comes into play.

Girls are really mean to other girls. That being said, I still love you.

itachimusume April 25 2007, 07:36:22 UTC

what i wonder is wouldn't the "ex" part indicate that the parties involved are no longer interested. And wouldn't that multiply in magnatude when said "ex" is married?

I never really liked insecured people anyways. I dont get them at all.

And you only like me cause you are perfectly happliy attached. If we were both single and man hunting, oh I bet we'd rip each other's eyes out ;D

<3u2

feydreams April 25 2007, 18:07:05 UTC

I generally agree. Ex = ex as in no longer interested, with a couple of exceptions in my past. For the most part though, ex is ex and while you prolly won't like each other right away, after a few years, you really ought to get over it and move on. Especially if you're married. If you get married and you're still afraid to be faced with an ex (Honestly, do they think you're going to be jealous? Please.) you have some things you need to work out.

But I knew you when we were both single and we didn't rip each others eyes out then. I think it's just cause we both fundamentally understand that girls automatically judge each other harshly. With that understood, we can be friends.

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klari April 25 2007, 00:29:38 UTC

Your gathering was tons of fun! I am debating what kind of vase you need. If I do the vertical mexican style you can hang more of your jewelry on it, but I've never done that before, so I'll have to un it by my instructor to see if there is anything non obvious about the technique. Any color preference ( ... )

Exes.. feydreams April 25 2007, 18:29:32 UTC

I have no color preference. Actually, I really like the way you mix colors, so I have complete faith that anything you do will be amazing ( ... )

i've stumbled into a patch of.. permanent high schoolers fnord_foobar April 28 2007, 07:29:28 UTC

Roach, if you have a problem with me, or my wife, i might recommend doing
something radical - talk to us. in person. yes, it might take a bit of spine.

In our family, we don't air out our business for every passer-by to see. If we have some issue with someone, we take it to him, not everybody _but_ him
to feel good about ourselves with our internet friends. Maybe your mother
didn't get around to teaching you such courtesy. Maybe she forgot to teach you to know what you're talking about before opening your mouth, too.

please grow the hell up.
It is supremely amusing to see you whining and bubbling with your online friends about _maturity_.

If you really want to get that upset about it. feydreams May 2 2007, 15:51:02 UTC

*sigh* Obviously you'd blown this out of proportion. My lj exist for me to vent. Venting often results in things sounding worse than they are, but that is the purpose of venting. I was mildly irritated. I mentioned on my lj. Big deal. Did you even read the comments going between me and klari? If you did you might notice that we ended up discussing post-break-up relationships in general and not you specifically. Besides, I'd hardly call complaining that you guys didn't show up as "airing our business."

Why didn't say it to your face? Simple. By the time I'd seen you in person, I was no longer irritated. So why would I bring it up? I ceased being irritated about 5 minutes after I posted this, which means it served its purpose. You're the one who seems to be getting bent out of shape by my sarcasm.

Don't you think it's a little hypocritical of you to scold me about not saying anything to your face and not having a spine when you are posting this online on my lj too. So ummm...pot, kettle, black ( ... )