welp...
a pile of new dates lately, trying to reassess what i'm looking for - trying not to stress e in the process and failing miserably. i withhold too much info.
feeling slightly crowded by analysis but i think most of it is me, projecting - he seems ok when i need my space, but he wants me to tell him i need my space. yes, i care about how he feels, but goddamn, lower expectations are my friend.
right now i just want to be touched. hours of backrub pls. ideally with fresh brains. one reasonably promising fellow has a very pleasant approach to touch and so far there've only been two dates, ish, kinda. he's kinda cocky and questionably sociable but i may not be looking for a diurnal friend. we'll see.
feeling slightly crowded by analysis but i think most of it is me, projecting - he seems ok when i need my space, but he wants me to tell him i need my space. yes, i care about how he feels, but goddamn, lower expectations are my friend.
right now i just want to be touched. hours of backrub pls. ideally with fresh brains. one reasonably promising fellow has a very pleasant approach to touch and so far there've only been two dates, ish, kinda. he's kinda cocky and questionably sociable but i may not be looking for a diurnal friend. we'll see.