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Well thanksgiving proved to be pretty painless. Lots of food, lots of movies, lots of hanging out with Dave's family. I was kind of disapointed that we didn't get very much alone time. His mom still had us sleeping in separate beds. And I noticed whenever his family was around, he was more reluctant to touch me. Although there were a couple times when we were watching movies that he'd rest his head on my shoulder or put his arm around me. I guess I just miss sleeping next to him. It's not even the sex so much as just sleeping with his arm around me.
We had a discussion on the way to the train Friday and he told me that he's seriously considering moving in a couple years. I asked him where and he said he was thinking about Austin, which is one of the places I've mentioned as a place where I might want to look for a job. It's not New York or San Francisco, but it's warm and its in the beautiful southwest so I could be happy there.
But he hasn't told his mom that we're planning on getting a place together this summer. I asked him what he thought his parents would say and he told me that they really like me but they weren't too big on living together before marriage. They seem very open minded but they can also be quite traditional on certain things, case in point- us having to sleep in separate beds. I'm sure Dave will do what he wants when it comes down to it, like he did when he moved here. I think he just doesn't want to let them down again because he already has the warped idea that they are disapointed in him which is crazy considering where both his sisters are currently at- one still living at home and the other on welfare. I just want to know that he wants to do this. Sometimes he seems really excited about it and other times, I'm not so sure. I'd love to share a place with him and sleep with him every night but I don't want to push anything. I guess only time will tell.
We had a discussion on the way to the train Friday and he told me that he's seriously considering moving in a couple years. I asked him where and he said he was thinking about Austin, which is one of the places I've mentioned as a place where I might want to look for a job. It's not New York or San Francisco, but it's warm and its in the beautiful southwest so I could be happy there.
But he hasn't told his mom that we're planning on getting a place together this summer. I asked him what he thought his parents would say and he told me that they really like me but they weren't too big on living together before marriage. They seem very open minded but they can also be quite traditional on certain things, case in point- us having to sleep in separate beds. I'm sure Dave will do what he wants when it comes down to it, like he did when he moved here. I think he just doesn't want to let them down again because he already has the warped idea that they are disapointed in him which is crazy considering where both his sisters are currently at- one still living at home and the other on welfare. I just want to know that he wants to do this. Sometimes he seems really excited about it and other times, I'm not so sure. I'd love to share a place with him and sleep with him every night but I don't want to push anything. I guess only time will tell.