Emo-mode sa Office
Napapanahon ang mga posts at quotes sa Facebook tungkol sa love. Dahil ba magpapasko na naman at perfect timing siya para mag-emo lalo na sa mga walang kapartner o malayo sa mahal sa buhay.
Kahapon isang kaibigan ang nagtanong ng ganito sa kanyang FB wall:
Is it worth it to fight or go after the one you believe is the "perfect" one When you have lost him/her already? And You've been looking for so long for a better person but still in your heart he/she remains? LOLIs it worth it to fight or go after the one you believe is the "perfect" one When you have lost him/her already? And You've been looking for so long for a better person but still in your heart he/she remains? LOL
Parang semi-nakarelate ako kaya gusto ko sagutin. Pagtapos lahat ng task sa opis, sinimulan kong isulat ang gusto kong sabihin. Nagdugo ng brain ko dahil nakulta siya mashado at umabot sa ganito kahaba ang ni-comment ko...
May diff possible na scenarios ng 'lost' dito:
A. You have "lost" the person dahil iniwanan ka niya
B. You have "lost" the person because it was a mutual decision
C. You have "lost" the person dahil you let him go even na gusto pa rin niya
In A, if the other person left you, do you think it is still right to go after the person after leaving you? Whatever the reason is, you will just look pathetic if you go after him. Parang ifi-feed mo ung ego niya na, you cannot live without that person. The same goes dun sa argument nyo before, about the need-love. [may isang naunang thread about dito: She didn't love him, she needed him ang topic]
In B, so you both decided to part ways maybe because of career-move, family-related or whatever the reason maybe. Eto feeling ko worth fighting for PERO it all boils down to kanino manggagaling ang initiative. Norm kasi sa Phil culture na dapat hindi babae ang naghahabol or nag-iinitiate. Kahit na sabihin ng society nowadays na okay lang yun, ganito or ganyan na ang bagong trend, hindi naten maaalis yung mentality na yun esp if na-instill un satin mula pagkabata. It's like a vice that you can't get rid off. But if you decided on going out of that norm, of that comfort zone, pwedeng you'll fight for him BUT what if huli na? Pwede din you'll fight for him and you get good results. You just have to take the chance and see where it leads you.
In C, if you were the one who pushed him away kahit na gusto parin niya kayo to be together, then you'll realize sooner or later na you don't wanna lose him, hindi ko sasabihin na fault mo yun as a whole. Kasi what if that person broke your trust, niloko ka or what, he apologized and confessed that he still wants to be with you. Nasa sa'yo yun if you'll give him a chance. Ang trust parang glass, once it's broken, you can never bring it back to its original state, either there'll be a missing piece, or mabuo mo nga pero may lamat. If that person hurted you once, hindi mo maaalis sa isip mo na 'what if he'll do it the second time? third time? or so forth?'
Pero kung ikaw ung na-fall out of love or ikaw ung nagdecide lang na feeling mo hindi magwowork, pero siya willing itry, dito naman papasok ung pride mo. If you're willing enough and you don't care what your pride's whispering to you, you can go and run to him and admit your apprehensions - that you realized you're jumping onto things and being such a paranoid, and that you want to keep him. Pero kung at the back of your mind naiisip mo baka magmukha kang pathetic, needy or cheap, it just means di mo pa kaya siya ipaglaban hindi sa ibang tao kundi sa sarili mo mismo kasi natatalo ka ng pride mo. Sabi nga ni
sinong mas mahalaga, siya o ako?
Every love is worth fighting for. Kahit masakit o masaya, it's all but a risk, a gamble. Pwede kang manalo, pwede ka rin umuwi na bankrupt, kahit gaano pa kalaking feelings ang ni-invest mo. Kuha mo?!?!
Ako hindi ko gets haha. Hindi ko nga din alam kung me sense ba pinagsasabi ko hehe. :))
Aja! Love Love Love! ♥ ♥ ♥
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