I was a nerd with few friends in school. I hung out mostly with my older sisters friends until they graduated. Found a few other nerds and hung out with them. I have no real happy times of school......it was too stressful. If you have any good times.....treasure them.....what children do or say back then does not normally reflect how they will act now. I have no contact with schoolmates.....nor do i want to. I do have co workers and a few friends that i can hang with now. If they want to treat you like a third wheel then ignore them....make new friends. But, if you are determined to find out some answer to this problem then take it on by talking to them one at a time. Maybe its not everyone. When they are away from the pack of friends they might act different. Maybe you can pick a few to be closer to? Remember though....life has changed for everyone after high school. People get married, have kids, rent or mortgage, car payments, work, etc.......so if they are talking about you on social media .......you must have made an
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I was actually know what I'm going to do. I've decided to put it all behind, since a long time ago. But, sometimes, I will be reminded of the memory and that's when I will be sad remembering those memories. And that's why I wrote this entry. Because I was reminded of those memories. When I was reminded of those memories, I would ask myself if I should contact them. Is it okay for our friendship to end like this? But, it will reach the same conclusion. There's no use even if I contacted them, even if I tried to ask why they were ignoring me. Because I will get the same answer. Not that I'm asking them together, I asked them individually. At the same time, I asked myself if I ever treat them like that. Maybe I did and maybe that's why I was treated this way in return. A friend of mine told me that it's okay to let it be. To let them be with their life and I, myself with my life. Be with someone who was happy to have me around. Anyway, thank you for your advise. I really appreciate it. *Hugs*
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I was actually know what I'm going to do. I've decided to put it all behind, since a long time ago. But, sometimes, I will be reminded of the memory and that's when I will be sad remembering those memories. And that's why I wrote this entry. Because I was reminded of those memories.
When I was reminded of those memories, I would ask myself if I should contact them. Is it okay for our friendship to end like this? But, it will reach the same conclusion. There's no use even if I contacted them, even if I tried to ask why they were ignoring me. Because I will get the same answer. Not that I'm asking them together, I asked them individually. At the same time, I asked myself if I ever treat them like that. Maybe I did and maybe that's why I was treated this way in return.
A friend of mine told me that it's okay to let it be. To let them be with their life and I, myself with my life. Be with someone who was happy to have me around.
Anyway, thank you for your advise. I really appreciate it. *Hugs*
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