i have had enough!
ok so i last update when i was in the computer lab and ive been talking to some people, 2 people in particular and ive got some things to say...
1.i honestly think if people are NOT brought into a conversation or conflict that someone else is in they should NOT get into it, now i know i have been accused of doing that but lately ive been doing a good job of keeping my nose outta other peoples business unless they want me to know! and it just pisses me off when other people jump in and ruin the situation even more or make the person feel worse or more pissed off or whatever (no im not talking to one person in general, slow your roll)
2. i think its really pathetic when all guys listen to their penis..there i said it..ALL guys listen to their penis once in there lives if not (and many do) MORE..NO girl likes it unless they are a whore and to be honest no girl is that much of a whore to hate when a guy listens to his dick..guys are self-centered most of the time and all they usually want is to get some..now if your fortunate that lucky, one in a million guy comes along and actually listens to you and his own instincts..but ive found out, long time ago, that all guys want some...all guys..and if your a guy and your sittin her tellin yourself "whatever! i dont do that i totally listen to girls and know when enough is enough!" well newsflash..sometimes..you dont..SOMETIMES it takes more than once to say NO..and then it gets to you that you need to stop..this is why ive given up on guys for a while and are now goin on to better things such as school..being a freshman is a hard cookie to crack so boys are the last thing on my mind..just know..if your a guy and your reading this, you should treat girls like that, we're smarter than you think we are and some of us know, just by looking at a guy, if hes worth giving our time to..and to be honest, not a lot of yall out there are worth that because you dont know how to respect a girl..not to offend any guy but, next time you want to make out with a girl or go up her shirt, just think long and hard about what your doing, and if she doesnt wanna do something you better be ok with it and not get all pissed off cuz she doesnt want to..cuz thats just pathetic..
3.(last one) i hate people who, when you get a boyfriend, automatically take that just cuz hes not the GREATEST looking guy in the world that you can do better..no..sorry..shut the f--- up..you have absolutely NO right to go around spreading your opinion if you do NOT know the person..cuz i can be real blunt about this to you, that person your telling that to does NOT wanna hear something like that and if you care about that person one single bit with any amount of your heart youd know better than to tell them they can do better just cuz of the way their boyfriend or girlfriend looks, the thing that she ONLY matter is that the person is happy..good for them if they dont take the sh-- your given them, at least they are bein mature, and not listening to you guys at all..and when i say "you guys" im only referring to the people who have done this and are still doing this..and if your reading this and youve done this before, shame on you..you just disrespected your friend, and basically let them down..now i know girls do this a lot, they see a guy that their friend is dating and they go up to that friend and say "girl he is down right ugly, you can do much better" i know a lot of girls who do that..just later in life they'll get it slaped back in their face when the guy they want doesnt want them because of their looks..its only the truth..and i also know a ton of guys who do the same thing, they'll be in the weight room or out running or just hangin out and the topic will come up and they'll say "man you know that girl your datin is down right ugly/fat/too skinny/etc..how could you want something like that??" thats pathetic..guys need to learn that its not just whats on the outside but on the inside..and they will also get whats commin to them when they want a girl that doesnt want them cuz of their looks..
main thing im tryin to get at..is that these teenagers that think that the world is made up of paper hearts that can be molded into whatever shape and form or even color to fit whatever comes at them are gonna get it in the end, are gonna see what its like to be in the other persons shoes and believe me ive been in the other persons shoes and they dont fit quite well..people cant be molded into perfection or even into what the world throws at them..us teenagers are smarter than that..or at least we should be..girls and guys, just be yourself, and be respectful of your friends feelings and the person you like's feelings..everyone has feelings, and unfortunately those feelings are easily hurt..i care about everyone even enemies because im not that heartless to say i hate someone, even if they do not like me at all, doesnt mean they dont have a heart that can be hurt by something i say..just next time you do something or say something..think about it first and ask yourself if your really bein the person you want people to think you are..
no one wants a bad reputation, whether that be a bitch a whore a slut or any number of things that school and people in general catogorize us as..if you dont want a bad reputation, you wont have one, because you want put yourself in situations that make people question your actions..
just be yourself..and be respectful of other peoples feelings..
<3 amy
1.i honestly think if people are NOT brought into a conversation or conflict that someone else is in they should NOT get into it, now i know i have been accused of doing that but lately ive been doing a good job of keeping my nose outta other peoples business unless they want me to know! and it just pisses me off when other people jump in and ruin the situation even more or make the person feel worse or more pissed off or whatever (no im not talking to one person in general, slow your roll)
2. i think its really pathetic when all guys listen to their penis..there i said it..ALL guys listen to their penis once in there lives if not (and many do) MORE..NO girl likes it unless they are a whore and to be honest no girl is that much of a whore to hate when a guy listens to his dick..guys are self-centered most of the time and all they usually want is to get some..now if your fortunate that lucky, one in a million guy comes along and actually listens to you and his own instincts..but ive found out, long time ago, that all guys want some...all guys..and if your a guy and your sittin her tellin yourself "whatever! i dont do that i totally listen to girls and know when enough is enough!" well newsflash..sometimes..you dont..SOMETIMES it takes more than once to say NO..and then it gets to you that you need to stop..this is why ive given up on guys for a while and are now goin on to better things such as school..being a freshman is a hard cookie to crack so boys are the last thing on my mind..just know..if your a guy and your reading this, you should treat girls like that, we're smarter than you think we are and some of us know, just by looking at a guy, if hes worth giving our time to..and to be honest, not a lot of yall out there are worth that because you dont know how to respect a girl..not to offend any guy but, next time you want to make out with a girl or go up her shirt, just think long and hard about what your doing, and if she doesnt wanna do something you better be ok with it and not get all pissed off cuz she doesnt want to..cuz thats just pathetic..
3.(last one) i hate people who, when you get a boyfriend, automatically take that just cuz hes not the GREATEST looking guy in the world that you can do better..no..sorry..shut the f--- up..you have absolutely NO right to go around spreading your opinion if you do NOT know the person..cuz i can be real blunt about this to you, that person your telling that to does NOT wanna hear something like that and if you care about that person one single bit with any amount of your heart youd know better than to tell them they can do better just cuz of the way their boyfriend or girlfriend looks, the thing that she ONLY matter is that the person is happy..good for them if they dont take the sh-- your given them, at least they are bein mature, and not listening to you guys at all..and when i say "you guys" im only referring to the people who have done this and are still doing this..and if your reading this and youve done this before, shame on you..you just disrespected your friend, and basically let them down..now i know girls do this a lot, they see a guy that their friend is dating and they go up to that friend and say "girl he is down right ugly, you can do much better" i know a lot of girls who do that..just later in life they'll get it slaped back in their face when the guy they want doesnt want them because of their looks..its only the truth..and i also know a ton of guys who do the same thing, they'll be in the weight room or out running or just hangin out and the topic will come up and they'll say "man you know that girl your datin is down right ugly/fat/too skinny/etc..how could you want something like that??" thats pathetic..guys need to learn that its not just whats on the outside but on the inside..and they will also get whats commin to them when they want a girl that doesnt want them cuz of their looks..
main thing im tryin to get at..is that these teenagers that think that the world is made up of paper hearts that can be molded into whatever shape and form or even color to fit whatever comes at them are gonna get it in the end, are gonna see what its like to be in the other persons shoes and believe me ive been in the other persons shoes and they dont fit quite well..people cant be molded into perfection or even into what the world throws at them..us teenagers are smarter than that..or at least we should be..girls and guys, just be yourself, and be respectful of your friends feelings and the person you like's feelings..everyone has feelings, and unfortunately those feelings are easily hurt..i care about everyone even enemies because im not that heartless to say i hate someone, even if they do not like me at all, doesnt mean they dont have a heart that can be hurt by something i say..just next time you do something or say something..think about it first and ask yourself if your really bein the person you want people to think you are..
no one wants a bad reputation, whether that be a bitch a whore a slut or any number of things that school and people in general catogorize us as..if you dont want a bad reputation, you wont have one, because you want put yourself in situations that make people question your actions..
just be yourself..and be respectful of other peoples feelings..
<3 amy