On back to being single, yarn therapy, birthday and where should I go?

[fanelendil]

So, where should I start??

First, thank you very much for all your comments of support in my last post. I'm not going to put Frank in a bad light here. What he did hurts me pretty bad...nevertheless, I think he deserves some credit still for having been the very first boyfriend who had actually treated me very well in comparison to the others.

So,

Comments

[smurfmonkeys]

Reading your description of what had happened is all too reminiscent of a past relationship of mine. Supposedly I was too clingy as well, but never knew about it. Both my best friend and I asked him constantly if everything was fine, but just like in your situation, he said of course, and would actually get mad that we kept asking him. But I noticed a change, and I KNEW something was up. Funny how your instinct works, huh?

I think it's great how you're being open-minded about it. We all make mistakes in our relationships obviously, but we need our partner to let us know when we do so. I've noticed this about my current relationship.

I think Frank has his reasons, he just went the wrong way about it. You're right that he should have told you he wanted space, and the whole cheating thing... I won't go there. Just don't beat yourself up about it. If he wants space, give him space. I know it's not easy, but the sooner you move on, the sooner you can get back to YOUR life and what YOU want. Don't wait around for anyone who doesn't have the time or interest to wait for you.

Keep your head up!