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Women telling men "You don't listen." should not be an allowable basis for an argument. First of all, men aren't even aware they aren't listening, even when they are listening. We can't help it. Women should know by now, that men don't listen. So yes, I am shifting the blame from the man to the woman, because it's such a common complaint, that it can't be completely the guys fault. It would be the equivalent to complain that swimming in the pool is too wet for your tastes. It hasn't changed for generations, and will continue to not change.