Friend Zone
I am completely sick and tired of being put in that fucking place with women, you nice guys now the place, the Friend Zone...you like a girl, you treat her like a goddess, and because of the fact that you seem harmless, you become just like the gay best friend, and I am sick of it all, I feel like being the "asshole" archetype of "man" so that I don't get stuck in the Friend Zone, it is the worst fuckign feeling, being completely head over heels with a girl...and they see you as the good friend while they tell you all their problems about the guy that they want soo badly who you know is not going to be good for her. I am sick of all this shit. I like 3 girls, one alot more than the rest, all of which im stuck in the Friend Zone, and I dont want to tell them how I feel, otherwise i will lose them as a Friend cuz they will want to back off so they don't hurt me, well guess what...im not a that fucking delicate, just tell me and we can still be friends damnit, I am not a creeper thats going to moon after you. To all the guys out there stuck in this situation, we need to man up, we need to take charge, why should we be pushed to the side and the asshole jock types get all the girls, theres no reason for it...what makes us any different? Sure, I am not the best looking guy, and i have my flaws, but are the women in my life truly that shallow? That they fawn after the guy that shows no interest beyond a hookup?!? I thought I was doing good, getting lucky for once in the female area, but just as soon as I start to think I'm picking up on signs, they fall apart, and they start telling me how they aren't really over the last guy, and all about the guys that they like, this is my entire life unfolding all over again. One of my good friends is ahvign boy issues, and I am more than happy to help, but when there are girls who I obviously like, and I show advances, yet they don't pick up on it, they see it as fun flirting, and I am sick of it. What makes me any different than the guys who get all the girls? just because they are better looking? I have met so many women who are with dumb guys that are handsome, I am sick of the shallowness of women. I am much smarter than the majority of the guys I see the women going after. A few days ago, I saw a girl being completely fliratious with a guy who doesn't want her, while the "nice guy" who likes her sat next to them and watched with this look on his face...that look said it all, and at that moment I wanted to tell him that i knew how he felt. What I hate the most is even the girls who i barely know, the ones who are slight acquaintances of mine, will lump me into the Friend Zone without even giving me a chance. A woman does not easily change her mind and become sexually attracted to a man she has already placed in her friend zone. Which is very different from how a male's mind works, and as a result leads to a string of false expectations on the part of the man. I am sick of being led on just to be dropped on my ass. It is time for me to make a decision, either give up on women and go gay (which has been a possibility for awhile, I have more male suitors than female suitors, but more I mean I have one opposed to zero) If women don't start changeing than I will, not one woman has shown interest here, I am sick of it. I have no chance when im placed in the friend zone before a girl even gets to know me, I cant stand it.