No you can't. But you can find a nice, gentle way of disagreeing with them. a way of correcting them without insulting them.
And that's just the thing. This narcissistic SOB can be believable.
People warned me about him years ago. I replied, "No, no, XXXXX is good guy...." I was duped myself.
It's really not that he's especially intelligent. Rather he's just such a wackjob you wouldn't expect that he's playing you. He takes every opportunity to manipulate.
the situation that I (we) am (were) in gives him ample opportunity to manipulate and exploit. It's a long drawn out story that i'll not belabor you with.
If you're not going to provide any details, how do you expect us to help you, much less have an interest in the scenario? Throw us a frickin' bone, son.
"If you're not going to provide any details, how do you expect us to help you, much less have an interest in the scenario? Throw us a frickin' bone, son."
:) Forgive me but i'm very new to this as is our forum.
"The story. Whatever information you have. What handle the guy uses, what he calls himself, the details of his claims."
Thank you.
He calls himself "irishman"
I have known him for 6 years.
Again, forgive my haste and forgive me for being new to this.
But i should have told you that i already have a LOT of info on this fellow. He has already hired lawyers to threaten our forum's owner. I am not wanting any of what i post here "coming back" so to speak.
I probably should have stated that i want to confirm that this guy is still alive. How to i prove that he's alive.
And as "Pseuicide" goes he is NOT good at it
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Search obituaries where he was purported to live. Search the Social Security Death Index. Search the name of the company he reportedly worked for that arranged all this shit. Call them and ask where to send condolence flowers and mention his name.
Thanks very much for responding. And before i go on, i'll again say that this is new to me. And in hindsight i would've reworded my original request for assistance. As it came off as not being objective.
"Search obituaries where he was purported to live. Search the Social Security Death Index. Search the name of the company he reportedly worked for that arranged all this shit. Call them and ask where to send condolence flowers and mention his name."Actually i did search search local obituaries via the internet. As we do know where he was purported to live for many years. It yielded nothing
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As i do claim to be a moderator i'll also claim that i don't wish start a pissing contest on someone else's forum. Or i should probably say "another pissing contest." resurrect a pissing match from the dead.
But that's actually one of nicer things that's been said to me, here.
Well, frankly, your whole tone makes me think that you're only trying to impress this woman (because lord, you keep hammering home the point that she's a woman, and there are women there, and women women woman woman WO-MUN OMG FEMALES OMG UTERUSES OMG) so that she transfers her focus to *you*.
The fact that you only created your LJ today makes me wonder what the fuck YOUR game is.
"Well, frankly, your whole tone makes me think that you're only trying to impress this woman (because lord, you keep hammering home the point that she's a woman, and there are women there, and women women woman woman WO-MUN OMG FEMALES OMG UTERUSES OMG) so that she transfers her focus to *you
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People's lives are not cars. You need to back the hell off these women that you seem so intent on being the White Knight Savior to, because you're fucking creepy.
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"You can't prevent someone from being stupid."
No you can't. But you can find a nice, gentle way of disagreeing with them. a way of correcting them without insulting them.
And that's just the thing. This narcissistic SOB can be believable.
People warned me about him years ago. I replied, "No, no, XXXXX is good guy...." I was duped myself.
It's really not that he's especially intelligent. Rather he's just such a wackjob you wouldn't expect that he's playing you. He takes every opportunity to manipulate.
the situation that I (we) am (were) in gives him ample opportunity to manipulate and exploit. It's a long drawn out story that i'll not belabor you with.
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:) Forgive me but i'm very new to this as is our forum.
And i'm not sure what details that you want.
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Thank you.
He calls himself "irishman"
I have known him for 6 years.
Again, forgive my haste and forgive me for being new to this.
But i should have told you that i already have a LOT of info on this fellow. He has already hired lawyers to threaten our forum's owner. I am not wanting any of what i post here "coming back" so to speak.
I probably should have stated that i want to confirm that this guy is still alive. How to i prove that he's alive.
And as "Pseuicide" goes he is NOT good at it ( ... )
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This is not hard to figure out.
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Good morning.
Thanks very much for responding. And before i go on, i'll again say that this is new to me. And in hindsight i would've reworded my original request for assistance. As it came off as not being objective.
"Search obituaries where he was purported to live. Search the Social Security Death Index. Search the name of the company he reportedly worked for that arranged all this shit. Call them and ask where to send condolence flowers and mention his name."Actually i did search search local obituaries via the internet. As we do know where he was purported to live for many years. It yielded nothing ( ... )
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As i do claim to be a moderator i'll also claim that i don't wish start a pissing contest on someone else's forum. Or i should probably say "another pissing contest." resurrect a pissing match from the dead.
But that's actually one of nicer things that's been said to me, here.
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The fact that you only created your LJ today makes me wonder what the fuck YOUR game is.
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And the pain of stupid people regardless of gender fuels the acid-powered cockles of my schadenfreudig heart. Nom nom nom, their tears are so sweet!
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