what a tangled web we all weave.......

Aug 29, 2005 16:10

what is your advice on asking a married man to leave his wife for you? i mean, i cant bring myself to do it. but... he has already said he would.. but i told him no and to not think about that again. so he seems almost scared to say anything that could make me feel like he would. i honestly believe that he would do it if i gave him the impression i ( Read more... )

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stuckwoyou October 17 2005, 07:17:13 UTC
Sprinkleme77,

Let's be honest. He doesn't like himself and the fact that you are young, sexy and are interested in him knowing he is married is a huge turn-on for him. He feels better about himself when you are around because of this. The passion is there, he feels more attractive and the sex is better because you are new and exciting. He may be lying about a divorce to keep you around, communicate his new found love, or even be serious because he feels better about himself with you and keeping that feeling is worth ending his marriage. Either way, eventually your attentions won't be enough like the last women before you. With you, divorced or not, remarried or not, he will continue to use you to feel better about himself until you become the wife. Then, it will be some other women's attentions he will need to fulfill his emotional needs. If you want to be with him, he needs to deal with this first. I'm sure your beautiful, sexy, and great in bed, but I'm sure you are also intelligent. You are not what is missing in his life, his self-esteem is. I have been down his path with many unique, beautiful, sexy ladies who should have been able to fill my void. But honestly, they could not do that, only I could. Good luck and be careful. There is a lot of pain for everyone on that path.

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