what a tangled web we all weave.......

[sprinkleme77]

what is your advice on asking a married man to leave his wife for you? i mean, i cant bring myself to do it. but... he has already said he would.. but i told him no and to not think about that again. so he seems almost scared to say anything that could make me feel like he would. i honestly believe that he would do it if i gave him the impression i would still be around if he did. has anybody been through anything like this? we've only really been having sex for about a month and im in love with the guy. - i know the difference, because i was with a guy for 4 years and never felt this way about him. this man and i share a lot of passion and i know all i would have to do is give him the word. but he has two kids and it would probably be the most selfish thing in the world for me to ask of him. but, with him not wanting me to see other people.. he's almost ready to make that move just so i dont.

any advice? i mean, im not an idiot.. im just seeking personal experiences here...

not so much what you think i should do. cuz regardless im gonna eventually do what i want anyway.