Well, I dont think it is that uncommon. Although if you pursue this course, it might be better (if at all possible) to be single. This kinda thing can get really complex really easily, and the lesss you have to worry about, the better. Dont worry about the 20 year old too much--he probably would have done the same thing if it meant for him to get some....
Question is: how do you really feel about Sean? Is it a physical/lust thing, or do you think you could really develop feelings for him?
haha. its funny you ask his age, because i was going to avoid that till someone asked. sean is 39. although you'd never guess that if you were to meet him, he is definitely one of those younger athetlic looking types that never seem to age. young spirited as well. -- and as for the son, i already figured he just wanted some type of summer fling while here in california. he's leaving in about a month. im not too worried about him, cuz sean doesnt really seem to be. except that he avoids calling me when he's around. [for several reasons]. now the guy im seeing lives out of state... which is what has made this easy [at least for me] at this point.
Well, age isnt really important. I was just curious:) IT almost seems like you have a clear opening to pursue him, if you want to. The only thing to worry about is the wife:)
i could see myself liking sean later because he's a wonderful person.. but right now everything seems to be purely sexual. all these random fantasies flawlessing going through my mind constantly. i dont even feel that much jealousy toward the fact he's married. so i think in a way im just holding off on "feeling for him" right now.
He sounds like he's in the same position as I am. Highly unlikely he would leave his wife. You may want to look at it as having the fun you want for now, but it may not turn into him joining you for good. Hope we can help you. Just keep us up to date.
yeah, at this point in his life, i couldnt see him doing it... for more reasons than one. but do you think he'll mind if i communicate what his full intentions are of even cheating on his wife? i dont want him to think im not interested if i ask those questions. cuz right now everything on my mind is purely physical. but i could potential like or even LOVE this man if it got more and more involved. right now im kinda putting a block on that on purpose. afterall nothing has happened between us yet. has your "mistress" asked you these things? - i dont expect him to leave his wife for me by any means. i change to much as it is and will probably eventually want to move on from this someday too.
the difference between you and me then i guess would be that i have known this man for 7 years and he has been a long time friend of my aunt, it was through HER that we reunited and started coversating with connections kept by his son. i guess i could make it physical first and ask questions later? i dont know... he seems interested in me, im not even so sure why. he mentions how much ive grown up since the last time he saw me and how independent ive become. it draws my interests further but our coversations are limited due to his wife and son [who likes me]. i will be keeping everyone updated on what happens though.
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Question is: how do you really feel about Sean? Is it a physical/lust thing, or do you think you could really develop feelings for him?
By the way, how old is Sean?
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i could see myself liking sean later because he's a wonderful person.. but right now everything seems to be purely sexual. all these random fantasies flawlessing going through my mind constantly. i dont even feel that much jealousy toward the fact he's married. so i think in a way im just holding off on "feeling for him" right now.
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The one mistress I've had so far never even sent an email or message back. After meeting her, I didn't intend to maintain the relationship with her.
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