Boy, I'm glad the certain recent post has been finally taken down by the mod. (If you didn't notice it, consider yourself lucky.)
I was becoming increasingly sad, for the OP.
I regretted going to bed without asking the mod to take it down already, but when I woke up, it was gone.
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Everyone made a mountain out of a molehill.
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Thanks for telling me, Mer!
I didn't know if she'd just left the comm in the middle of the never-ending thread.
I wish that people would just discretely pm the OP if they have serious issues with the content, you know?
Something like this is bound to happen once in a while in any comm, I guess. Sad but inevitable in a huge open-admission comm like this dears.
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I'm glad it was taken down though.. i felt so bad for the OP..
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The first few criticisms were constructive and meant to keep the OP out of trouble. But soon, some jumped on the wagon and turn the discussion into something so negative and somehow all about "themselves". (-"-)
The OP certainly didn't deserve THAT.
Yeah, the word in question, that didn't surprise me, either. But then again, it is a sensitive term, highly derogatory to some people.
And I couldn't really imagine G using that word anyway, except in humor with his closest of friends (of course, if he were a native English speaker, that is). Therefore, it wasn't funny to me, personally...
Thanks for your comment, BTW. =D
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It bothers me sometimes that we can be so eager to jump on people over the internet. I honestly doubt the situation would have been handled in the same manner if this had been a real-world, face-to-face issue. I think people forget that there are real human beings behind the words we read on the internet. There are real human emotions involved in the things we say and do online. It's easy for some people to say "oh, it's just the internet, it's not real," but for some of us, it's not so easy.
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I can understand how you stayed away for a while.
I did, too, until I really wanted to say something comforting to the OP. (^_^;
Your second paragraph states exactly my thoughts, too, word for word.
There are real human beings with emotions behind all of these userpics, and since we can only convey "words" without any extra sensory information attached to them, it's very important how we express ourselves on the internet. Always.
Oh, the internet can be extremely hurtful. Not everybody's strong enough to shrug it off. We all know some people have killed themselves over cyber bullying.
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Anyways, that's why I try not to say nasty things on the internet, because I realize that this way isn't the best way to convey my emotions, so some of my stuff will be worded with so many apologies and "no offense" stuff, it's crazy! LOL
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I hope nothing ever happens to change that wonderful part of you and the others here that think like you.
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You're making me cry... (;_;)
I don't think I deserve such high praises, but it's very nice of you to think that about me.
Oh, I'm just much older than most of you, that's all!!! LOL
*hugs*
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