Why is sex such a big deal to most people? I swear I know some people that don't care who they fuck or if they are commited, as long as they get some booty.
I guess some people fear diseases or something, but I'd say it's personal morals, mostly. Some people see getting into a fistfight as a big deal, some people say swearing is a big deal, some people say cheating on your husband/wife is a big deal, some people say suicide is a big deal. How do you justify anything being a big deal? It's all about morals and emotions. Take away those and every person in the world could die in a day and nobody would even blink while it happened.
Ohhhh. xD Uhm. Yikes. I have no idea. Err... *tries to think in their perspective* I guess it's just the opposite... they just lack the morals or emotions that go (for some) with sex. For them it's just "Hey, sex feels great, why not have it with anyone and everyone?" and then they go for it. As I said to someone just the other day, sometimes I wish I was a manwhore, but I couldn't be, because I'm too good for my own good. If everyone had no fear about that sort of stuff, I must admit it would be nice to be able to ... or maybe not... blah. Okay, lost my point, but I'm sure it's there somewhere. Yay. *falls over*
Most guys probably consider sex a big deal because they like to brag about how many times they've had it, or something along those lines. The fact that they lack morals makes them act weird like that. *shrugs*
Enjoying sex is one thing, having sex with more than one person is another. That is, relatively speaking, a lack of morals. *nod* There are likely billions of people who are able to keep their sexual urges to one person at a time.
Hmm. My first initial thoughht would be that getting some "boo-tay" would be to rack up an accolade, so to speak. In some groups, such as a group of teenage males, they like to do it get popular, since in America, teenagers are hormone-driven in general. It could be from the ego boost it'd give them, which goes back to my accolade theory. I don't really care what other people do, although it is a little sad to see people not using protection when they do it.
I'm just supposing. I think that people who do go on sex searches do it for differing reasons, although some reasons are more common than others. I've never had much of an interest in it myself, so I have difficulty giving any real answers.
...okay, that's not true. I've had sex. God knows I loved it. I had sex a lot because I enjoyed it. But now that I'm not with that person (nor with anyone else), I don't have it and won't have it until I find someone that I feel it'd be right with. I need the emotional attachment or whatever. I have those morals.
What you said is something not said if you have morals similar to mine. You accuse someone of not understanding something yet it seems you don't understand the other side yourself!
I don't know. Some people are sexually driven and I think some people have sex just to get the physical feeling and to prove something. A lot of people have sex for the wrong reasons and regret it later. At least in most cases I know. =\
You are right some people just have sex just to get it over with and that is where the problem lies. Sex is not a big thing its really just nothing. I dont see the big damn deal of it
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I'm just supposing. I think that people who do go on sex searches do it for differing reasons, although some reasons are more common than others. I've never had much of an interest in it myself, so I have difficulty giving any real answers.
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What you said is something not said if you have morals similar to mine. You accuse someone of not understanding something yet it seems you don't understand the other side yourself!
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You must be a girl.
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