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evilkeight

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Sep 27, 2006 13:45

It really bothers me when planned rituals that are intended for fun become a burden. Something I no longer look forward to, but rather, dread because it is seemingly getting in the way of my very breathing.

Is it that I am not a social person? I am beginning to believe more and more that this is the case.

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qu2samantha September 27 2006, 19:24:25 UTC

Sometimes the planning makes you lose sight of the fun. It's an occupational hazard. But surely it's better to plan seeing those that you love than not to see them at all, right?

christine_920 September 27 2006, 20:17:54 UTC

I'm not sure what in particular you're referring to, but I think I understand what you're saying. It's like the rituals become so ingrained that we lose sight of their purpose. And then it's even worse because we spent so much time and energy that now we feel obligated to enjoy what we're doing, but it's not enjoyable anymore ( ... )