Feb 17, 2009 15:45
Why is it ok for men to tell women that they don't like their appearance?
A few weeks ago this dumbass who works in sales came up to me and said
"I saw you smoking. You shouldn't smoke. I used to smoke. It's gross. Don't do it. Do you have a boyfriend?" -no - "You should stop smoking".
Thanks. Key to all my dating problems is that I smoke.
Today he walks by and says "Did you change your hair?"
-yes, last week
"Oh. I like the old way better."
DICK! STOP! What is the protocall? If he is being a dick to me can i say "dude, stop being a dick." he knows he is. He even says "now you know why my clients are like "fuck off".
I'm going to say something next time. and if he's a dick i'm taking it upstairs!
I can't handle the appearances put downs. I already feel self conscious about the way I look. And after spending a summer a few years ago with a drunk man telling me everyday my hair was ugly and I should change it just makes me think i'm back there again.
Fuck that guy. He's gettin' it.