desdenova replied to my
last post by describing the gender inequalities in the science world. Since she is a Scientist!, she knows whereof she speaks. I did my time in the world of science, but mostly at a women's college, and in biology, so I can't speak to the gender issues there. However, my time in
The Theatre School sure taught me a thing or two about
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The thing that gets my goat is that be it racial or gender inequality, white males get blamed and bashed for the failures of our ancestors and other misogynistic individuals. I'm sorry I'm Caucasian. I'm sorry I'm a Christian. I'm sorry that my forefathers were bigoted and chauvinistic. However, I am proud to be a man who is secure enough to work for anyone, regardless of gender/race, who displays professional ethics. I am proud that I am an involved father, and I am proud of my friends who can take topics like this and create intelligent discussion. Thanks for sharing your ideas and thoughts.
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My god, you are going to force me to write another post. I agree with you about this, especially as it relates to fatherhood, which is a topic close to my heart.
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My point is only that in some circles women are given 'freedom' into some crappy fashion 'options'.
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However, I agree that it is skewed that way in business, but I find that as long as you dress professionally, no one should have an issue. For gosh sake, do you think I LIKE wearing neckties? Do you think I like to wear starched shirts and suits? I must admit that I haven't had anyone tell me I had to wear heels or makeup, and for this I am thankful! :)
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It happened in the 17th century, so it can happen again. Don't forget wigs and corsets. For all of the legitimate complaints about the discomfort of work clothes, there are lots of eras where the clothes were an order of magnitude more uncomfortable than now.
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Yes, female children have the most freedom of choice, and adult women in casual environments run a close second. Work is a whole other story.
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For what it's worth, ever since I have known you I have found you very comfortable and non-judgmental about gender roles. I'm happy with where you landed too. I enjoyed going to some guy-ish movies with you that my sister didn't want to see. I've always been very proud of your pride in her professional accomplishments -- not many men are as genuinely approving when their wives are being the major breadwinner. As with my theater experience, your early struggles with gender identity were at times painful and turned you into someone you didn't like, but you learned from them. If only more people did.
I just wish some of the old world mentality would go away.
Damn right. Why can't we all just get along?
We are all individuals, so please don't generalize.That's the point of my earlier post, and the way I feel about gender issues in general. People are welcome to handle their gender how they like as far as I'm concerned, but I don't agree with forcing other people to conform to one's own ( ... )
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