What the
Scratch the boyfriend part, he's a total asshole!
He used the Avada Kedavra of Unforgivable Things to Say to a Woman:
"If you just lose some weight, you'd be perfect."
I kid you not, that is what he said. Well, the first part is true anyway, I kinda blanked out after that so I'm not 100 percent sure what he said after 'weight'.
When I kept asking about what he felt for me and what he was doing, it turned out he wasn't serious about dating me at all. 'I'm so busy at work and stuff'.
Wrongness!
So needless to say, he's a goner.