Jun 22, 2005 11:08
While thinking about things in the shower today, I uncovered an interesting reaction in myself. When someone or something points out to me, "Haha, you suck," I have a tendency to either say, "Fuck you, you can't tell me what to do, or "Fuck you, I didn't want to play anyway."
Both are unnecessarily angry. The latter is damaging to me more than to anything else. I will try to substitute "I can learn," for those reactions when I notice myself doing them.
Kat, this is 90% not about that; the remaining 10% pertains to me rather than anyone else.
navel-gazing