Yes, I DO know more than you... and I can tell you this, you have a loonnggg way to go and your problems are many. You can't solve them all and you may have to leave what was your life behind....that's just how life gets... do you really think I wanted to go through everything I have already...? but I agree with the other anonymous poster here... you are (at the very least) clinically depressed dude... you were before the baby... you were while you were here in California... and (despite all you've done to try to be better) you STILL are now... you will not be able to save your marriage no matter what you do... unless you treat your depression... of course if you just follow the 10 point plan, the depression may alleviate on its own but will still take quite a while. Bottom line (and this is no shit) IF you WANT to work things out and stay in your marriage... you NEED TO GET COUNSELING AND SOON... otherwise your marriage will eventually slip away from you regardless of your indecisiveness...
Look, these people mean well but they haven't known you for 20 years... that's me... and you have NEVER been like you are now... it's killing you and it's hurting everyone around you... something's gotta give.. either you take some form of proaction or things will just happen... it's up to you for now... but the universe is not a static place...
Look, these people mean well but they haven't known you for 20 years... that's me... and you have NEVER been like you are now... it's killing you and it's hurting everyone around you... something's gotta give.. either you take some form of proaction or things will just happen... it's up to you for now... but the universe is not a static place...
---- J
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